“Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb is a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, so are the children of one’s youth.” Psalm 127:3-4.
There was a time when women rejoiced when they found out they were pregnant. These days, for many women, news of being pregnant is greeted with horror. They start thinking how there is so much they still want to do with their life so they can’t have a baby. To a large part of the human population, if you can’t afford to have a baby, pregnancy is an inconvenience, so abortion makes it a whole lot easier; you can have all the sex you want and not worry about having to take care of a baby if you got pregnant along the way. A salary cut may be considered an inconvenience, no ramps for wheelchair bound patrons outside of businesses is an inconvenience, someone asking you for help when you’re in the middle of something you can’t really drop at that moment is an inconvenience, a pregnancy should not be considered an inconvenience.
For many young girls/women it’s the fear of disappointing their parents. Other reasons, “Oh, I just got this new job.” “I just got done with my first week on the Insanity Workout and I’m seeing massive results”, “Oh, no, I’ll get stretch marks!” “Oh, this guy will leave me if I have this baby.” “I’m still in high school.” “I’m still in college.” “What will my friends think of me?” “What will the people at church think of me?” Really, there are many reasons that can be listed for why women choose to have abortions; but not one of the reasons are unselfish. Many men and women really only think of the outcome of their lives as being of any significance and also possibly ruined if they go through with the pregnancy, but the baby’s life is very rarely ever taken into consideration. Why? Because many don’t even see what’s growing in them as a baby until the child is born, or after several months have passed. Many just just see a fetus, so that makes it pretty much dispensable. The way some people carry on about pregnancies you would think they were talking about a few pounds on their body they wanna lose, so they take the necessary steps to get rid of it.
Many people are divided over Pro-life and Pro-Choice. Pro-life supporters oppose the legalization of induced abortions, and believe that a fetus and embryos should be protected. As Christians where should we stand in regards, sadly to what many would consider, an incendiary topic? Should we even have a stand at all or just let things play out? I don’t think I’m the only one who wonders how God feels about abortion. The obvious answer is that He doesn’t want us to kill our children. God does not support abortion. He doesn’t support the unlawful murder of a child. He greatly disliked how the Moabites and many other groups of people would sacrifice their children to their false gods and idols. He even warned His people, the Israelites, not to practice the ways of those people.
The women who are pro-choice think they have full authority over their bodies, that nobody should be allowed to tell them what to do in regards to terminating a pregnancy . It is amazing how things like the rights to kill an unborn child is being argued as a person’s civil rights, and anyone who opposses that is trying to obstruct someone from their rights. Many women resent being called murderers when they have an abortion because to them a fetus is not a child so it’s not murder when a person aborts that pregnancy. What exactly determines whether your fetus is an actual living human? Is it at the very moment an egg becomes fertilized when it encounters a sperm? Is it 3 months into pregnancy, or six months into pregnancy? The answer is, God is the one who determines when a life begins, it’s as simple as that. He’s the one who gives life, and He’s the one who takes it back when He pleases. When does life begin? According to scripture Leviticus 17:11-12 and Deuteronomy 12:23, the life is found in the blood, it is the life of all flesh, it’s blood sustains it’s life. A fetus of course contains blood, so biblically a fetus is alive, just as alive and valuable as the little children playing in the park.
Do women really have the choice to decide what to do with their bodies in regards to pregnancies? Well, as humans we have the freedom to choose to do whatever we want, whenever we want; but with each choice we make their are consequences. Can women choose whether to abort their babies? Yes. Men and women can make whatever choices they want, but must be made aware of the consequences of their actions. God has stated that we will be rewarded according to our works. If one does bad works, his reward will not be very pleasant. If one does good works, he will be rewarded with eternal life.
There are persons, even some Christians, who are pro-life but have made certain exceptions when it comes to abortion; these exceptions are for women who have been raped and high risk pregnancies. At one time I also agreed with that exception to the rule, I thought it was a justifiable reason to terminate a pregnancy; but after studying the Word of God, I had a change of heart. Yes, rape is very horrible, I hate it and I’m sure God hates it too; and for many women, delivering a baby who’s father is the rapist that raped them is not a very pleasant thought; but if we think of the child as no more than a link to a rapist, then we devalue an innocent child’s life based on an occurrence that happened which really wasn’t that child’s fault. A part of that baby, the women who has been raped carries, is not only the rapist’s but the victim as well. Her chromosomes and genes are in that baby too, or is that something to disregard because the baby cannot be seen as anything more than a product of rape? All abortions produce the same results; an unborn baby is killed. If you have a child and the father of your child abuses you, would you kill your child? No, you would not. I’ve heard this once before and I stand by this, you don’t kill a child for the sins of the father. Aborting a baby cannot and really should not be justified no matter the circumstances surrounding conception. Terminating your pregnancy because you were raped, really if we look at it from a Christian standpoint, is a crime committed because of a crime.
Women, just like men, were wonderfully and fearfully made in the image of God. For women, also just like men, our bodies are programmed a certain way to do certain things at a certain time in our lives. The best way I can describe it is that, the human body has a certain set of sealed instructions within, placed by God, that the body must obey in order to function correctly. Females produce eggs as well as estrogen and progesterone. Pretty much all women have a period, whether it’s irregular or regular, it happens; even infertile women have their period. Eventually when a women hits a certain age, usually between the ages of forty-five to fifty-five these things cease. Hormones begin to shift and the menstruation cycle ends, meaning ovulation comes to a halt. This is the females body way of telling her, no babies are going to be popping out of here any more, unless God wills of course. I say all that to help many come to understanding that, our bodies are designed to tell us when we shouldn’t have babies anymore, we aren’t to go out and take it upon ourselves to cancel a pregnancy, if that egg has been fertilized that is because God permitted it to happen. Christian women and men should stand against abortion because it is just another way people have decided to rebel against God’s will, and it is is murder. We are told to imitate God as good little children, and we know that God doesn’t take it lightly when an innocent life is taken, in fact, God hates it when innocent blood is shed, Proverbs 6:16-17, an unborn child is innocent.
When did we become a world where the life of an unborn child has no value, where our opinion takes precedence over Gods precepts. Many people believe a baby’s life doesn’t begin until after the baby is delivered, but there would be no baby to deliver if there was no life to begin with.
Because of indifference and a lack of knowledge about what happens during an abortion, issues like this aren’t addressed the way it should be. Since (most) think the baby isn’t even a legit living human, and during the abortion the baby is unaware of what’s happening, it’s no big deal. Many people must think it’s simply the babies being gently put to sleep, then delicately removed from the womb and then are cleaned up and have a nice burial in a cemetery. No, that’s not what happens. Sorry to be graphic, but they’re either cut up, or the skull crushed, burnt, then tossed out; in short, they are snipped and chucked. A great deal of indifference that many have towards matters like abortion, and scores of other things, is one of the reasons behind many of the problems we see in the world today. People think, “Oh, let them do what they want, it doesn’t affect me.” If people could be shown how even the seemingly insignificant decisions they make have an affect on a myriad of lives on planet earth; maybe the gross indifference towards these significant matters would be diminished.
As the heading says, abortion is murder, but just like murder, and all other sins committed against God, it is not something that cannot be forgiven by our merciful and loving Heavenly Father. There is good news for those who have had abortions or considered having one. There is a loving, merciful, living God who prefers mercy rather than sacrifice. If you repent and ask God for His forgiveness, He is faithful and just and will forgive you. Yes, it’s not easy for many women who have children, to raise on their own in today’s society, and for economical reasons. This is why it’s best to to trust in God’s way, in His perfect order and to abstain from sexual intercourse until you’re married. Yes, this is more easily said than done for many of us, but God not only provides an exit out of temptation, but He also provides us with His Holy Spirit once we are born again, so that we may prove what is His good, acceptable and perfect will. Pray for self-control if you have troubles with lust and avoiding sex. Trust in the Lord at all times. Wait on the Lord at all times. He will guide and strengthen you. 🙂